Tuesday, March 8, 2016

A Blessed Life


 What do writers do when they are at a loss for words
about something significant in their lives?
They write – and the words come.


On the twenty-seventh of February at 11:15 am, Father William Mehrkens died. He was surrounded by those who loved him – and they read and sang together. The last song was Let Justice Roll Like a River. Then someone whispered to him in Ojibwa: Giga-waabamin Miinawaa Bizaan igo gaye giin 
(I shall see you again. Peace be with you too).

Our years of living on the East coast were tumultuous and an education for the two of us growing up on the prairie. The March on Washington. Wandering the streets with others in shock and disbelief when JFK was assassinated. Sitting on the Jersey side of Manhattan the night the power grid failed and seeing the darkened city. Tap water that would make Flint’s water seem like a clear mountain-stream.

Now it was time to find a safe place to raise a family – a peaceful place. When a job opened up in the North Woods, we did not hesitate. Here we could begin a new life.

Leaving behind New Jersey’s heat of 105 degrees, we set off across country. Less than an hour after arriving at our destination, a fierce wind blew through, wrapping a canoe or two around trees and toppling other trees across town. If we had been looking for a sign, this was it. There was to be no peaceful life for us! But we were tired after the long drive and not looking for signs.

It was just a year after Vatican II. Father Bill Mehrkens embraced new winds blowing through the Church – as unexpected as a wind-storm in northern Minnesota. Within days he and my husband met. They were a matched pair of change-agents. It was the beginning of fruitful ecumenical work together.

In these days after Father Bill’s death, we have searched for words to describe him. After fifty years, it would seem to be an easy task. Instead what we found were seemingly contradictory sets of words. Looking more deeply, these “contradictions” were exactly who Bill was.

Humble, modest, and kind. A fiery and passionate social activist. Sometimes getting into trouble for standing his ground. A long list of accomplishments – though he would never enumerate them. At the same time, he never stood out from the crowd. Ego? It was never a visible part of him.

Perhaps the best description of this good man was that he lived the Gospel. He did not just talk the Gospel. Feed the hungry – he did so. Take in the homeless – he did so and was threated with jail time if he did not stop. Once he gave his coat away to someone needy – as well as the coat of a fellow priest. He sought out injustice. Then acted to rectify what he saw.

A healing person, he was sent to Red Lake Reservation after an earlier priest committed horrendous acts of destruction in the Indian burial ground. There in his early 80’s, he again brought about change – and learned Ojibwa. While I could not master passable Spanish at half his age.

Asking ourselves what Bill would have to say to us about his passing from this life, I think he would say: live the Gospel in whatever way you are called. And don’t spend your tears on me, but on the world that needs you.

I am sure Father Bill did not spend much time thinking about the legacy of his life. He simply did what he felt called to do.


He was a blessed and ordinary-extraordinary man. And his presence blessed the lives of so many of us.

Tuesday, March 1, 2016

SUPER TUESDAY

Politics! Politics! Politics!

Unless a person chooses to avoid all media, this 2016 political “circus” is in our faces.

There has never been a campaign for the presidency like this one. The polls change daily.
GOP candidates shout at each other. Name-calling is frequent. While Democratic candidates 
debate issues. Makes a person wonder if this process is occurring on two different planets.

Fact-check resources work overtime to sort the true statements from the chaff. Sifting through exaggerations and out-and-out un-truths.  Almost as though these campaigns are about candidates’ personalities – and have little to do with any qualifications a person might have for the hardest job in the world.

Is it too much reality-show television drama, being voted off the island. Programming, which has so filled many people’s minds, that has blurred the distinction between entertainment and realities of our daily lives/the problems in the world?

Is it ignorance? Moving from the Midwest to the East coast, I used to laugh at New Yorkers’ version of the country’s geography. There was NYC and there was southern California. To go from one place to the other, one flew over a large void. Some enterprising soul even designed T-shirts with this limited perception of our country’s varied geographical culture.

When ordinary folks are asked basic questions about national and world issues, they typically score low. Who is the Prime Minister of Canada? Name five countries in Asia – or Europe. What is the most pressing problem facing this country? Is climate change a real phenomenon – or a conspiracy?

One contributing factor may be the theory of groupthink, researched by Irving Janis and a number of social psychologists. Close-mindedness and pressures toward uniformity are typical. Warnings are ignored when they challenge beliefs (climate change?). Stereotyping others are who “different” (anti-Muslim attitudes and white racism?). Direct pressure often is applied on anyone who appears to deviate from groupthink beliefs.

One of my favorite experiments is to gather together a group of ordinary people. Everyone is “in on it” but one person. Group members discuss some misstatement. The lone person, who is not “in the know,” is first confused about the obvious. Gradually, that person succumbs to the mistaken belief. Great fun as an experiment. Not fun at all when it happens in real life. I imagine all of us have had the experience of reluctantly embracing a point of view – leaving an odd, queasy sense in the pit of our stomachs.

However, there is another underlying dynamic: fear. Fear easily converted to hatred. We live in a rapidly changing time. Technology, perennial war, issues of immigration, rouge leaders, terrorism, and almost daily school-shootings.  And it becomes easy to lose perspective in a world in which we instantly learn of world events. Making it not difficult for a “smart” person to exploit our fears.

It is said it took Benjamin Franklin four months to learn of the end of the revolutionary war – because it took that long for a ship to sail from here to France. The Gulf War was said to be the first war viewed as it was happening on our television screens. The instant information made possible by the click of a button would boggle the mind of a Rip van Winkle! 

As people make their way to their primaries and caucuses today, everyone will be carrying a huge load of information – and misinformation. Who will win their votes? 


Politics! Politics! Politics!